关于究竟是中国教育导致孩子虚伪还是美国教育导致孩子虚伪这个问题，我曾经试图研究过。毫无疑问的，哲学，怪圈，死循环，不相上下，世界大同，等等等等都相继从这个问题中衍生出来。我把自己绕了进去，彻底放弃。
虽然课题没有定论，一个事情是肯定的，那就是，又受中文教育又受美国教育的胖子，双重虚伪。
目前来看，美国虚伪占上风。
跟朋友一起出去吃饭，都走到饭馆门口了，发现我还穿着LD的大T SHIRT，很郁闷的问LD，这样给你丢人了么？胖子在旁边热情洋溢的抢答，NO MOMMY, YOU LOOK GREAT!
我在做饭，胖子游手好闲的晃过来，妈妈你来给我念书！
不行，妈妈在做饭，一会儿再念哦！
胖子很懂事的关切的拍拍我的屁股，妈妈你太～辛苦了。
做好了饭，端给她，许是饿了，许是就是闲的，尝了一口，就做拍广告状，
EMMM EMMM THIS IS THE BEST I'VE EVER TASTED!
照样吃了三口就走人。
带她去玩儿，从一个BOUNCE HOUSE里面出来，看着晒蔫了目光迷离的我们老两儿口儿，做兴奋状，
OH, THAT WAS REALLY FUN!THAT WAS THE MOST FUN I'VE EVER HAD!
爸爸赶紧提起一口气，匆匆再去给她排队。
爸爸给她画画，笔刚刚碰到纸，OH DADDY, THAT IS SOOOO BEAUTIFUL!
19 comments:
so sweet, envy to death!
FT，就比点点爹晚了一点点。
EN，你们家这个，叫贴心，叫SWEET，不叫虚伪
Please don't attribute it to the education system, neither Chinese or American.
It is all in the genes, your genes, muhahahaha.
xiner, i beg to differ
呵呵。小孩子都是最真实的。说出假话来，都是被教唆的。
那，是谁教的呢？
heyhey, think about your childhood, whose words have more authority? of course the teacher.
at least i wouldn't listen to my parents but always listen to my teachers. :)
in amy's case, no way i can teach her things like that, it's not in my belief system.
Boy: Mommy, you look pretty! Yes, you do!
Mom: You should say "Mommy, you look smart!"
--ocotillo
zan amy sweetest girl, how come you conclude that is 虚伪? JJDD liuyue!
jjdd 6! exactly because 小孩子都是最真实的, that's not 虚伪, she's just learning. she may just think what the teachers say is nice.
and zan 6 虽然戒了,在这里一样能挖坑让大家灌水!
I don't buy your theory. We all send kids to daycare, why only Amy can say things like that? It's either in your gene or is your style.
And you always said you were always teachers' favorate, how so?
哈哈，这里水流成海。
恩，我支持六，我家也这样说，不过全部是英文，没有用中文作绛紫夸张的表达，因为我们在家不这么说。不过呢，也不能说是虚伪，其实也是孩子认可他人的一种表达方式。
hahaha
thanks all for stopping by.
we just have different definition of "虚伪“，you guys think it as a relly big word. i am just thinking it as not saying what you really think. :)
i was a teacher's pet cuz i listened to them too well.and yes, that is 虚伪too. like the diary we had to hand in in grade school, nothing in it was true. that's just a different way of saying lying is ok. and i was so good at it some time i was not sure if i was lying. :p
赞AMY！CO-羡慕！
也不能完全说是虚伪，就是这里的习惯吧。每次人家说起小菜，我都直说她淘气着呢！老美就奇怪了，你怎么这么说自己孩子呢。。。
JJDD chashaobao!
how sweet! 其实我看出来了，amy她妈也是‘虚伪‘，刀子嘴蜜糖心！
In Amy's world, you are the best mommy and daddy is the coolest guy living on earth. Simple playtime can bring her enormous joy and simple food made by you are the yummiest she ever tasted (I still remember she turned her nose down on those so-called gourmet in China).
Cherish everyday for this simple pure naive creature. The day she grow out of this phase is the day you celebrate and cry.
这样你好我好大家都好，不好吗？
super zan Amy!
自己家有这么个小甜心还抱怨个啥。
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