Wednesday, February 27, 2008

IT HURTS

IT REALLY DOES!

想了半天,竟然想不出下句来了.
就是这么一个感觉.

儿子上学的痛,sigh.

been there, done that.
不要说别人了,自己都可以说这句.
真的身临其境,还是痛.
以后还是不要苍白的安慰别人了,自己都安慰不了.

长大,真是不容易.
尤其是,还要二一茬儿长大.

我都这么不容易,那孩子们呐.
最近常想,i am happy enough.
what about my kiddos?
how much is enough?头疼.

9 comments:

Unknown said...

苍白的安慰you:
this shall pass too!

Starsea said...

pat pat rourou

就这么长大 said...

pat pat, 总会(也总得)熬过来的。

Alan and Megan said...

有了老二,心更软了,好像

6 said...

可不咋地么,胖妞妈。
我现在有让肉肉退学的心了。:(

ydmama said...

有时候觉得养孩子就是训练自己的心脏,碎了再完整,完整了再碎。体力上的累和一次次的heart-broken,worries相比真的不算什么。可是扭头回去再看看老大,也曾觉得伤害了她的幼小心灵,也曾担心给孩子的too much stress会影响她的性格发展,可是如今小人不是很阳光,很完美吗?:)

所以我还是企图安慰一下:孩子真正的痛苦绝对没有妈妈心里那么多,也绝对不像what it looks like. 孩子们都会快乐健康地长大的。

BTW, I do feel it is harder to raise a boy. They tend to get sick more often, with relatively serious illness. At least mine is the case.

Take it easy.

ydmama said...

I am really glad that my comments can be of a bit help. Thank you for the compliment. As a matter of fact, I do visit your blog often and like your writing very much. Amy is an amazing kid.

Plus, I got to know so many moms' blogs through yours. Sometimes it is fun and somewhat comforting to read other kids' stories, especially in my own down time. :)

Darrel will definitely get better and better with his age growing. I once heard a theory that the total numbers of kids getting sick in the first 6 years of their lives are same for most kids. I personally hope it is true. :)

lanfear said...

patpat,胖子小时候你也这样吗?一直imagine你跟我差不多呢。现在看来你的心不要太软哦。

helen liu said...

姐,if我说你矫情,你不生气吧。。。我记得当年的你,哪怕放假也把amy往学校丢哈,嘿嘿,要不,你就是重男轻女?。。。

摁,总之就是偏心。。。