就是麻木。
上次张amy小朋友上学，没有尿裤子，是哪一天？完全想不起来了。
感觉好像是。。。夏天的时候？
根据我最近平心静气的观察结果，其人尿裤子，完全没有不适感，完全没有羞耻感，加上我已经放弃了跟她起急，仅有的一点恐惧感也完全没了。尿起来，那是，理直气壮义无反顾。你问她，人家还头头是道的，i had an accident today, but that's ok. we all have accidents sometime.
又根据我跟老师反复畅谈的分析发现，这个尿裤子，不是因为尿急，不是因为害怕，也不是因为顾左右而忘厕所。基本上，两个可能原因，一，睡不着，找事情干。二，尿湿了，可以换衣服臭美。你说我还跟她崩溃什么劲的。尿吧尿吧爱谁谁。
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hug dear 6
I wish I could say the same thing
and acted as relaxed
Lucky Amy wouldn't be driven out of school because of this.
我不确信我能帮忙，但还是说说我的2 cents:
1. Don't even ask at the pick-ups. Take her wet pants and stuff and continue your daily chat/what you were doing with her, acting like you did not see the pants and did not know(care) about her accidents at all. Also, absolutely no talking to teachers, at home or anywhere about your concern. Let her believe tha you really, really do not care at all。
2. Ask her teachers if Amy could be offered some books to read or quiet activities to do on her cot at nap time so that she is entertained while not disturbing other kids. If those activities are already allowed, every morning, give her a little project such as "draw a house with mommy and daddy in it" for her to do and collect her product in the afternoon so that she knows you really want to see her work. Of course, praise her progress every day and encourage her to do more. The point is to keep her mentally busy so that she forgets about the "evil play" too.
Hope it helps a little.
pat pat
Amy是反叛的孩子吗？我还是觉得，要讲。当然不能让她害怕，可是，可以告诉她她这样做妈妈要多做很多事情等等等等。。。
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